Epidote

Epidote is the perfect stone for those who easily fall into victimization, dispel self-criticism, and help you look objectively at your strengths, weaknesses and those of other people. Learning how to set realistic goals removes you from unattainable expectations and the inevitable disappointments that come when you plan from your emotions.

Epidote is like a magnet in the sense that it attracts. In addition to attracting the energies around you and your environment, it will also help you attract the desires you have programmed into it. It mainly attracts abundance, prosperity and creativity, but can also be programmed to help find love and relationships. Epidote does not offer a "free ride", it is a karma based stone that attracts what you produce.